Anonymous asked: While I agree that Elena has changed (but think the hate is over the top), where do people come up with this notion that Elena never loved Stefan, they were just a fling, you cannot care for your ex...? I'm not even discussing the ways she has hurt him this season (keeping in mind her toxic thing with Damon, the fact shes not perfect and that he also hurt her in the past), but she has stated how important hes to her and she'll love him forever. Its just pointless to think she doesnt care.
I agree 100% with this. I personally don’t hate Elena and don’t blame her for everything that’s happened. I think everyone needs to remember that Elena is not perfect and that she never wanted any of this. She never wanted to be a vampire in the first place, she never wanted to be sired and she sure as hell never wanted to hurt Stefan. She did try for Stefan at the beginning of season 4 but she was sired and her feelings for Damon had grown when she became a vampire, whereas for some reason her feelings for Stefan had not. I understand that people hate her but I just can’t - I hold on to the hope that the writers have some sort of explanation for Elena changing and everything that’s happened. But I have absolutely no idea where people get the idea that she never loved Stefan all along. Elena, as a human, would have done anything for Stefan. She went through so much with him and still stayed by him, right until she actually died. One of the very last things she did as a human was choose him and let him know that he was her choice. And she definitely does still care about him. It’s been shown this season she still cares about him, even if she is this different person now. If the last episode didn’t show everyone that she still cares about him then I don’t know what will to be honest.
zac efron’s dance on hsm for bet on it was the most embarrassing thing i have ever watched