Anonymous asked: How can you say dan loves blair more than chuck???
*sigh* I’m just gonna copy my comment from a fanpop pick:
Dan loves her more because he actually loves the REAL Blair. Chuck/Blair fans keep spewing this nonsense about Blair not being herself since CB broke up, but that’s just plain denial. Look at what has been said on the show - Blair is intelligent, she loves to go to museums, watch intellectual movies, etc. The person she was with Chuck, THAT was just a version of the real Blair. She had to put aside things she was passionate about when she was with Chuck, but with Dan? He loves EVERYTHING about her. They get each other, and they work well together.
The petty scheming and childish games? Blair doesn’t want or need them anymore. Don’t you guys notice the differences in Blair with the 3 guys - Chuck, Dan & Louis - With Chuck, it was childish drama and Blair acting like she’s still an immature teen. With Louis, she struggled to not get caught up in the scheming and manipulations she was so used to with Chuck. Yet with Dan, there’s no demands from him to stop acting a certain way, no struggle not to engage in childish behaviors. With Dan, things are just good. They are on equal, solid ground with each other. He respects her, and loves her for everything she is - for the REAL Blair Waldorf.
I see CB fans talk about how they “miss S1-3 Blair”… REALLY??
You miss a Blair who was so insecure, who constantly felt like Serena was upstaging her and trying to outshine her? You miss the Blair that was struggling with bulimia? You miss the Blair who didn’t know who she truly was??
Funny, sounds to me like you just miss the Blair that didn’t realize she deserves better than an unhealthy relationship, filled with manipulation, lies and abuse.
So you want to ask me again how Dan loves Blair more? Well let me ask you something:
When has DAN ever looked at Blair and told her that she was like a horse, rode hard and put away wet??
When has DAN played mind games with Blair and made a game out of telling her how he really feels?
When has DAN traded her for a hotel?
When has DAN punched his fist through glass right beside her face?
When has DAN done everything in his power to ruin her relationship?
When has DAN tried to force himself on Serena?
When has DAN tried to RAPE Jenny?
Shall i continue? Nope, cause all of those things are the horrific behaviors of one Chuck Bass.
So please, tell me again how exactly Chuck is the perfect man who treats Blair great, while Dan is somehow a lowlife piece of shit who is destroying Blair?!
I still think that Elena telling Stefan "I feel like when you lost your memories, I lost a friend” is one of the most beautiful things she has ever said to him because the aspect of friendship alongside romance is what separates partnership from a simple relationship.